What is the difference between just living (“off”) and fully living life (“beauty”)? The passion of life affects our moods at every moment, and our moods will always reflect our passion for life in that moment.
Having a passion for life is what drives us toward anything we want to achieve. Without that passion, we can’t move forward. We all strive for a fun and purposeful life and that desire is what motivates most of us. But the only thing that can truly motivate us is our passion and drive for a better future.
Our desire for a better life affects everything we do and determines whether we do things with desire and willingness, or with reluctance and bitterness. We can get up in the morning happily or nervously, we can fulfill our duties willingly or reluctantly, we can face our difficulties with determination or depression, and all according to what we want out of our lives.
Life Is Hard But Wonderful
What is the difference between living in “off” and living in “beauty”? The passion of life affects our moods at every moment, and our moods will always reflect our passion for life in that moment.
When our passion for life has diminished, we have more negative thoughts. We are more vulnerable, more angry, and more likely to see other people in a negative light. We don’t have the inner strength to feel joy, to strive, nor overcome fatigue, lack of desire and lack of interest. And above all, we don’t have the power to do the things we have to do everyday.
With a high passion for life we are more willing to take action and change things ourselves, to kindly acknowledge our mistakes, and to forgive others for theirs. Fatigue, boredom and resentment are all signs of low life desire, while vigor and joy and the ability to quickly overcome negative emotions are all signs of high life desire.A low passion for life affects everyone who is with us and creates a heavy atmosphere around us.
But how do you move from “off” to “beauty”? With two tools. Your first tool is to divert attention from the actions you do to their results: “what a beauty, create a good atmosphere”, “what a beauty, strengthen the relationship”, “what a beauty, learn to have conversations”. This is how you give value and importance to the results of the things you do, instead of concentrating only on the actions themselves.
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Are there dishes in the sink? We can say to ourselves, “I have no power for the dishes,” or we can awaken in ourselves the importance of washing the dishes: “Well, I will have a tidy kitchen.” Our partner wants an intimate evening with us and we are exhausted? We can say “I have no power for sex”, or we can say: “Beauty, there will be more love in our lives”.
The “off” people are focused on the deeds they need to do: washing dishes, preparing a presentation, giving up sleep or watching a TV series. So who really wants to move themself? While the “what a beauty” people are focused on the rewards of the deeds they have to do like being in a tidier home, in a warmer proximity, or in success at work.
Your second tool is to change the things you say. And do not forget the following rule: The things we say not only reflect what we feel, they also create what we feel .
People of “off” have the habit of saying “off” things about tasks and challenges, and every “off” person expresses their reluctance while reinforcing their reluctance. People of “beauty” have the habit to say “beauty” about the improvement that their tasks bring them, and every “beauty” both expresses their good feelings and strengthens it.
Life is more important than winning against others
So when you decide to strengthen your passion for life, you focus on what you will achieve as a result of fulfilling your tasks, and you always say positive things about these tasks regardless of how you feel about them. Another “beauty” instead of an “off”, and another, and another, and slowly you destroy the old ways and build a new way of living built upon a passion and desire for life.